I'd say people would be able to live with the server issues if the single player modes actually worked as intended. Being told "Just wait" is really dismissive and not acknowledging any of the problems others are having with the game.
If someone shows up for work covered in sweat because their new car's AC doesn't work most decent people would say "Wow that sucks I'm sorry you are dealing with that, I can't believe they would sell you something that doesn't work" instead of "Man it's a new car there are going to be issues. Just deal with it and they will eventually fix it for you."