Pausers and quitters

[panyr8er_XBL]

It takes several attempts to get a game going but almost every game and the 4 ive been able to play the past 2 days somebody has to pause the game and someone else then pauses the game and it takes a good minute in between pitches then the timer runs out cant get past 1st inning seriously what is wrong with people why do yall have to keep pausing the game ?