I played 21 from release until December on the Series X because I couldn't find a PS5 at the time. I finally got a PS5 in October but didn't get The Show for it until December. I'm offline only so I can't speak to things that matter there, but I gotta give the edge to the Series X.
I was so pumped for the Dual Sense experience and sure, it was fine and it is a million times better than the PS4 controller was, but there is a weird lag (you get used to it) and it still feels a tad cheap compared to XBox controllers. And while I always have my second controller fully charged and ready to swap out, the fact that the XBox controller literally lasts 5 times longer than the Dual Sense is worth mentioning.